Okay, here's another idea for those who love wine and wine country. Lodi. That's right, Lodi, a wine area in California (SOUTH of Sacramento) which specializes in Mediterranean varietals (syrah, sangiovese, pinot grigio). (If you read the following comment you'll see that I had originally posted that Lodi was north of Sacramento. What was I thinking? I guess my thoughts weren't "stuck in Lodi" but indeed, Lodi is SOUTH of Sacramento. Thank you to the person who left the comment correcting me.)
This is definitely wine country which you want to visit in the fall or spring months, as the summer months can be quite hot (which is fine for the style of grapes grown there, but not necessarily for people getting married (unless you think perspiration pouring down your face makes for great wedding photos).
Anyway, there's an historic inn there which has special wedding packages. It's called the Wine & Roses Hotel, 2505 W. Turner Road, and looks quite lovely, and will accomodate up to 350 guests. The hotel has a restaurant and spa, perfect for the newlyweds who want to immerse themselves in fine wine, fine food and relaxing pampering.
They can be reached at 1-877-310-3358.